What should I do if my ex tries to stall the divorce proceedings?
One of the biggest ways that your ex can stall the divorce proceedings is by refusing to communicate. This tactic is not only costly, but it can also create a mountain of frustration for both parties. Basically, the point of refusing to communicate is to drag the process out as much as possible. The good news is that your attorney can document the refusal and move the proceedings along in your favor. Although this tactic isn't always effective, it can work. It can also be used to manipulate the children by demonstrating that the parent who is not communicating is more invested in them.
Avoiding service
One way to delay the divorce process is to avoid being served with divorce papers. This strategy can be effective for a short time but delaying the divorce cannot continue indefinitely. Fortunately, there are other ways to avoid the service of divorce papers.
The first way to avoid service is to leave before the process server comes to serve the papers. If your spouse is calling and asking if you are there, you can leave without answering the door. Or, if the process server comes to your home by mistake, you can simply ask a friend to watch over your home and not answer it.
Changing a spouse's mind on negotiations
One of the best ways to change your ex's mind about divorce negotiations is to show that you're willing to change. This can be done by acting confidently and letting your spouse approach you with their problems and concerns. You can also show your interest in saving your marriage by being a good listener during the discussions.
Be aware that it's important not to get sucked into a narcissistic spouse's stalling tactics. Although this type of behavior isn't uncommon, it's not a good idea to use it. In a narcissistic marriage, the narcissist's strategy is to waste time, deplete your spouse's energy, and exhaust your own resources. While it's okay to react in kind, you should avoid overreacting or sulking.
Changing a spouse's mind on finances
There are a few things you can do to change a spouse's mind about finances during divorce proceedings. One way is to avoid getting into a frenzied argument. It is common for arguments to escalate when a spouse is experiencing an emergency. While these situations are often temporary, they can make a spouse wish to end the relationship. Avoid arguments by avoiding social media and trying to talk to your spouse privately.
Another strategy involves separating your finances. Most married couples have accounts that are commingled and this can create issues during divorce. Instead of sharing bank accounts, open new ones for each spouse. Use these accounts to separate your joint and individual expenses and income.
Changing a spouse's mind on scheduling
Changing a spouse's mind on when to schedule divorce proceedings can be a tricky thing to do. Some spouses may delay filing divorce papers for a variety of reasons, such as lack of time for preparation or lack of legal advice. They may also want to avoid paying support payments or trying to hide assets. The key is to make sure you stay positive and show your spouse that you are willing to work with them.
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